As a mother of four, I've discovered that baby massage is one of the most effective parenting tools available. Offering comfort and reassurance through touch has a profound impact on a child's well-being and your relationship with them.

 

Let me share a personal story that highlights the power of this bonding. When my son Piers, then 8 years old, returned from a scout weekend, he was exhausted and irritable after hardly any sleep. I fed him, suggested a shower, and encouraged him to relax in his pyjamas. However, when it came time for bed, he was too restless and upset to settle down.

 

Instead of insisting he go to sleep, I offered to give him a back massage—something he had loved since he was a baby. Within three minutes, he was sound asleep. It was a reminder of how nurturing touch can instantly calm and comfort not only our babies but older children as well.